Blog
25
Nov
Why willingness matters in mediation
There’s an old saying: “You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink.” I often think of this when people ask…
18
Nov
Christmas Parenting Plans – A Calm Plan Makes for a Happier Holiday
As Christmas edges closer, I’m already hearing from parents who are beginning to feel that familiar mix of excitement and pressure. Children, of course, are…
11
Nov
Courage, respect and reconciliation
As we pause this week to remember those who gave their lives in service, I’m reminded of the quiet virtues that often go unnoticed —…
04
Nov
Why Individual Meetings Matter in Mediation
Before I bring two people together in a mediation, I always begin with individual meetings. These private conversations are often where the first sense of…
25
Oct
The screens, the silence, and what our children are learning from us
Modern parenting looks very different from how many of us were raised. Busy schedules, split households and ever-present screens have quietly changed the way families…
14
Oct
What children really need when parents separate
One of the greatest gifts we can give our children is our attention. Not just being there — but being present. Children flourish when they…
07
Oct
What’s really driving your reaction?
In every dispute, there’s more beneath the surface than what’s being said. Think of it like an iceberg: what we see — the arguments, justifications,…
09
Sep
What makes a relationship work?
It’s a question I often find myself reflecting on. We see couples celebrating 50 or even 60 years of marriage, and we admire their resilience,…
26
Aug
What makes a good day at work?
We all know the feeling when a day flows well — you get things done, people respond positively, and you leave without feeling drained. But…